Letting Go Before You "Get There"

Have you ever told yourself, “I’ll deal with this once I get there”?

In this episode of The Brad Dempsey Leadership Show, Brad shares a real-time story that unfolded in a single morning. A drive to cash a lottery ticket that his family truly needed turned into something much deeper. A yes from a friend stepping into the Leadership Collective. Unexpected kindness at Starbucks. A blocked truck that normally would have triggered frustration.

Instead of reacting, Brad chose something different.

This episode dives into what it actually means to “let go and let God,” and why so many of us misunderstand that phrase. It is not about avoidance. It is not about passivity. It is about working through what is happening beneath the surface instead of pushing it down.

If you have ever struggled with control, timing, frustration, or waiting to “arrive” before doing the real work, this conversation is for you.

Leadership is revealed in the space between reaction and trust.

Show Notes

What This Episode Explores

• The temptation to wait until you “get there” before you act
• Why real leadership happens in real-time moments
• A vulnerable story about financial pressure and unexpected provision
• The power of encouragement and a simple “yes” from someone in a hard season
• The internal shift from frustration to surrender
• What “let go and let God” actually means in practice
• Why pushing emotions down creates more pressure beneath the surface
• The importance of working through your emotions instead of reacting from them

Key Themes

1. Real-Time Leadership
Leadership is not theoretical. It shows up in traffic. In financial stress. In blocked parking lots. In daily inconvenience.

2. Letting Go Is Not Quitting
Letting go is releasing control, not responsibility. It is choosing trust over reaction.

3. Beneath the Surface Work
You cannot live intentionally if you are disconnected from what is happening internally. Suppression leads to pressure. Reflection leads to freedom.

4. Peace Is a Decision
Sometimes nothing changes externally. But internally, everything shifts.

Questions to Reflect On

• Where am I saying, “I’ll deal with this once I get there”?
• What am I currently trying to control that I need to release?
• When frustration hits, do I react, suppress, or process?
• What would it look like to choose trust in the moment instead of waiting for clarity?

Closing Encouragement

You do not have to arrive before you begin.
You do not have to suppress what you feel to move forward.
You can work through it.
You can let go.
You can trust.

Leadership starts beneath the surface.